The Lost Art of Listening : How Learning to Listen Can Improve Relationships
By: Nichols, Michael P.Material type: TextSeries: eBooks on Demand.Publisher: New York : Guilford Publications, 2014Edition: 2nd ed.Description: 1 online resource (321 p.).ISBN: 9781606230978.Subject(s): Electronic books. -- local | Interpersonal communication | Interpersonal relations | ListeningGenre/Form: Electronic books.Additional physical formats: Print version:: The Lost Art of Listening : How Learning to Listen Can Improve RelationshipsDDC classification: 158.2 Online resources: Click here to view this ebook.
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Cover -- Contents -- Introduction -- Part One …The Yearningto Be Understood -- Chapter 1 "Did You Hear What I Said?" Why Listening Is So Important -- Chapter 2 "Thanks for Listening" How Listening Shapes Us and Connects Us to Each Other -- Chapter 3 "Why Don't People Listen?" How Communication Breaks Down -- Part Two …The Real Reasons People Don't Listen -- Chapter 4 "When Is It My Turn?" The Heart of Listening: The Struggle to Suspend Our Own Needs -- Chapter 5 "You Hear Only What You Want to Hear" How Hidden Assumptions Prejudice Listening
Chapter 6 "Why Do You Always Overreact?!" How Emotionality Makes Us Defensive -- Part Three …Getting Through to Each Other -- Chapter 7 "Take Your Time- I'm Listening" How to Let Go of Your Own Needs and Listen -- Chapter 8 "I Never Knew You Felt That Way" Empathy Begins with Openness -- Chapter 9 "I Can See This Is Really Upsetting You" How to Defuse Emotional Reactivity -- Part Four …Listening in Context -- Chapter 10 "We Never Talk Anymore" Listening Between Intimate Partners -- Chapter 11 "Nobody around Here Ever Listens to Me!" How to Listen and Be Heard within the Family
Chapter 12 From "Do I Have To?" to "That's Not Fair!" Listening to Children and Teenagers -- Chapter 13 "I Knew You'd Understand" Being Able to Hear Friends and Colleagues -- Epilogue -- Index -- About the Author
One person talks; the other listens. It's so basic that we take it for granted. Unfortunately, most of us think of ourselves as better listeners than we actually are. Why do we so often fail to connect when speaking with family members, romantic partners, colleagues, or friends? How do emotional reactions get in the way of real communication? This thoughtful, witty, and empathic book has already helped over 125,000 readers break through conflicts and transform their personal and professional relationships. Experienced therapist Mike Nichols provides vivid examples, easy-to-learn techniques, an
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